Sunday Nights...
...feel different when u dun hv to work on Mondays.
It's freeeeeakin' great.
Wait, correction, any night will be good when u dun hv to work the nxt day. Yea.
I've alwaz fancied the night more than the day. It simply feels good to stay up at night, not having anything to do tomoro so i can sleep till i start to feel warm in my sleep coz the sun's up high & hangin'. In dis way, my nights will be longer & the day's shorter. Muahaa. I'm such a bum.
And i wonder which moron determines everybody shud start work in the morning. Sure, there r shifts & stuff but i tink the majority office peeps stil starts around 8-9.30am. Mayb if the majority starts work at like....6 or 7pm, there wouldn't be so much blues around.
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On a different issue, I wento do some remedies to my hair laz saturday (i stil hate my hair btw) & my hairstylist who is a mother/ auntie chatted much of her experiences in love wif mi.
She told mi stuff like how she met her now-hubby, his character, their relationship & marriage, in-laws problems, life, parenting etc. Interestingly, i quite c eye-to-eye on some stuff she brought up.
In her opinion, she feels one should refrain from falling for somebody too much, as it will only bring more pain to yourself.
As selfish as dat sounds, I agree.....& understand.
And amazingly, she is oredi educating her 11 yr old daughter on matters of the heart too.
Never too early to start communicating, huh?
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I have been hanging out wif my colleagues alot recently.
I must say dat altho i can't tune in very much wif their frequency, dey r nice people in their own rights.
I duno if education is the main culprit here, but i'm sure it has something to do wif it. I'm not discriminating, but i honestly tink it matters. Simply bcoz education also determines who ur frens r & c'mon, let's face it, ur frens play a huge part in molding who u r.
I dun have alot to say to dem so most of the time, i m just listening. Nothing wrong wif dat, but it's just that sometimes, to solve their plight, there could be a very direct solution but yet, dey couldn't quite see it or dey couldn't quite do it.
So I just choose to be less reactionary & more empathetic, in a bid to be less offensive. Just in case, dey take my reactions the wrong way.
Women can be reli over-sensitive sometimes, u noe.
It's interesting y "Coworkers" & "Frens" r of different categories. And i can see y dat is.
Even tho i spend 3/4 of my life seeing dem day in day out, I wouldn't say dey r my frens now. Maybe there is a subset named "Coworkers cum Frens" dat evolves from either category eventually, i duno. But, i m sure dey only fall into the former category for now.
And i define "Coworkers" as "People who work in the same company as U but may not necessarily remain in your contact list permanently. Or at least till U move on to another company."